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ARC of Understanding
In relationship we all make mistakes and sometimes we are insensitive to the needs of others, especially those very close to us All this leads to disappointments and resentments. The answer to handling disappointments is understanding. Relationships don't come about because people are perfect. They come because of understanding. There is more gratification in being a caring person that in just being a nice person. A caring attitude builds goodwill which is best kind of insurance that a person can have and it doesn't cost a thing. Being understanding is far more important than money and the best way to be understood is to be understanding. And the basis of real communication is also to be understanding. Practice Generosity :- It is a sign of emotional maturity. Being generous is being thoughtful and considerate without being asked. Generous people experience the richness of life which a selfish person can't even dream of. Be Considerate, Selfishness bring it's own revenge. Be sensitive to other people's feelings. Kindness:- Kindness is language the deaf can hear and the blind can see. It is better to treat a friend with kindness while he is living that displaying flowers on his grave when he is dead. Act of kindness make person feel good regardless of whether he is doing it or it is done to him. Kind words never hurts tongue. (Scientologist - Sir L. Ron Hubbard said - Affinity, Reality, Trust, Faith, Elegance & communication are the basic components of understanding. and Understanding makes people coexists, cooperate, correlate. Called as ARC of Understanding.) People who are true friend in the real sense help one another, but these are not favors. they are acts incidental to friendship and if that don't help they'd be failing in their relationship. RELATION & LOVE just don't happen, they take time to build they are built on kindness, understanding & self-Sacrifice, not on jealousy, selfishness, puffed up egos, and rude behavior. Relationship never be taken for granted. Once relationships are established, they need to be nurtured constantly. Nobody is perfect. Expecting perfection is setting yourself for disappointment. SYMPATHY & EMPATHY :- well Lets know the difference : Sympathy means "I Understand what & how you feel. EMPATHY is "I feel what and how you feel". About The Author Name : NIlesh B Gore Profession : Graphologist (Hndwriting Analyst) & SW. Eng. Email : ng411002@rediffmail.com Web : http://www.brendynamics.com/hw.htm Country : India, Ms Copyrights : Nilesh B Gore.
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